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Successful Relationships: Develop Healthy Boundaries

This entry is part 4 of 5 in the series Maintaining Healthy Boundaries

Good fences make good neighbors – Robert Frost Learning to have healthy boundaries is an exciting adventure, an exercise in personal liberation. It means coming to know ourselves and increasing our awareness of what we stand for. It also means self-acceptance and knowing that we are OK as we are and worthy of the good things in life. When two …

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Successful Relationships: Remedies to Unhealthy Boundaries

This entry is part 3 of 5 in the series Maintaining Healthy Boundaries

Here are some ways in which unhealthy boundaries may show themselves in our relationships, along with some remedies –   Lack of a Sense of Identity   When we lack a sense of our own identity and the boundaries that protect us, we tend to draw our identities from our partner. We can’t imagine who we would be without our relationship. We …

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Sucessful Relationships: Boundaries & Family Background

This entry is part 2 of 5 in the series Maintaining Healthy Boundaries

Unhealthy boundaries often emerge from dysfunctional family backgrounds. The needs of parents or other adults in a family are sometimes so overwhelming that the task of raising children is demoted to a secondary role, and dysfunction is the likely result. Consider the role of the father who screams at his children or becomes physically abusive with them as a way …

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Successful Relationships: Maintaining Healthy Boundaries

This entry is part 1 of 5 in the series Maintaining Healthy Boundaries

A successful relationship is composed of two individuals – each with a clearly defined sense of her or his own identity. Without our own understanding of self, of who we are, and what makes us unique, it is difficult to engage in the process of an ongoing relationship in a way that functions smoothly and enhances each of the partners. …

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Working to Improve Your Relationship – Ask Your Partner to Help You Solve Your Problem

This is the the sixth post in our series “Working Alone to Improve Your Relationship” In this part of the series we will be looking at so practical ways that you, working alone, can improve a relationship Ask Your Partner to Help You Solve Your Problem Rather than blaming your partner and creating an air of defensiveness, try reframing the …

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Couples & Conflict Resolution – Relax Your Definitions of the Power Struggle

This is the the fifth post in our series “Working Alone to Improve Your Relationship” In this part of the series we will be looking at so practical ways that you, working alone, can improve a relationship Relax Your Definitions of the Power Struggle When we are involved in a relationship conflict we often resort to all-or-nothing thinking, and it …

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Improve Your Relationship – Do Something Different

This is the the fourth post in our series “Working Alone to Improve Your Relationship” In this part of the series we will be looking at practical ways that you, working alone, can improve a relationship Do the Exact Opposite of What You Have Been Doing Each partner in a relationship plays a role. It is important to identify the …

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Working Alone to Improve Your Relationship – Take Care of Your Own Needs

This is the the third post in our series “Working Alone to Improve Your Relationship” In this part of the series we will be looking at so practical ways that you, working alone, can improve a relationship Take Care of Your Own Needs We often look to our partner to provide for our needs, and this can be a big …

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