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Signs of Controlling Relationships

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This entry is part 4 of 4 in the series Relationships & Controlling People

Some Signs of Being Controlled

Here are some signs of being controlled in a relationship …

1- Feeling drained of energy if you need to spend much time in the presence of the controller.

2- Needing to find time alone or out of the house.

3- Fantasizing frequently about some future time when you are free, independent, and able to do your own thing.

4- Always being concerned about pleasing the other person.

5- Spending money on the other person that you would never think about spending on yourself.

6- Feeling that you can never truly be yourself in the presence of the other person.

7- Cautiously guarding against having the other person angry at you, and feeling that anger could erupt at any time without notice.

8- Being interrupted while speaking.

9- Having your feelings defined for you by the other person.

10- Having to give your full attention to the other person.

11- Feeling that you are often criticized for things that you are proud of.

12- Being cautious about having outside friends for fear that jealousy might erupt.

Baya Mebarek, Psy.D., LMFT
www.sandiegofamilytherapy.net

San Diego Couples and Family Therapy serves the surrounding areas of Sorrento Valley Road as La Jolla, UTC San Diego, Del Mar, Rancho Santa Fe, Rancho Bernardo, Rancho Penasquitos, Poway, University City and Escondido.

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Dr. Baya MebarekDr. Baya Mebarek is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the state of California. She specializes in couple therapy, pre-marital therapy, and in the treatment of children, adolescents, adults, couples and families dealing with depression.View all posts by Dr. Baya Mebarek →

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